Getting Back

An acquaintance sent me a message about Matthew's injury. I don't know her very well, he son plays on a different AAA team but she is actually concerned about him playing again and she is not his mom...very sweet. I sent her an answer and I guess since I don't know her well, I unburdened my heart. I guess it is a bit like strangers on a train sharing things that you wouldn't tell anyone else. And this is what I said to her, not spoken aloud to anyone...my mama's heart:

Matthew really doesn't share that it hurts. I only know it hurts by the way he carries himself or if someone bumps into him or if he asks to use the cooling machine the Wegner's let us borrow. He won't take anything for it because he doesn't like the way ibuprofen or acetaminophen makes him feel.

It's hard. He was like this the first time he broke it. He won't say anything. He just keeps it inside. It is going to be really hard to watch him get back on the ice. I don't want him getting hurt but hockey is part of him. It's weird, he has wanted to play hockey for as long as I can remember. His dad kept wanting him to play football. It took him two years of pleading to get me to sign him up. I had him in swimming and he hated it. Keith Rowe came to his school and did a thing with his PE class and handed out flyers to try hockey for free and he came home so PROUD of his flyer. I couldn't say no....that's kind of how this is, I can't say no, but I am so leery of him going back to playing...and that is all he wants to do.

Social Media Stars

Our church is tech savvy...so much so, I'm usually about one step behind...We have a lot of young people who are excellent in keeping our youth excited and informed about upcoming events. Lately, I've been stumbling on my kids on social media in their promotions. It's kind of sweet and worthy of a screenshot for posterity.

So...not driving

My last post was about the fabulousness of driving Matthew to Nashville for hockey. This post will be about not driving. Last Sunday, while in Nashville, Matthew was owning the game until a 2 on 1 into the boards re-broke his clavicle. Did I mention this was the Championship Game? Monday was a roller coaster day of let it heal on its own or get surgery and plate it. Four doctors recommended letting it heal, four were for plating, the last doctor said "If my kid was in band, I'd let it heal on its own. If my kid played hockey, plate it." I had peace about that statement. I did not have peace about letting it heal on its own. Matthew wants to continue playing and I think if he didn't have bionic reinforcement, he would never be able to not worry about it snapping again.

 Greg was running the camera and was unaware anything happened to Matthew. Most people thought he was doing a line change. One of the parents puts the games on YouTube and he had no idea Matthew was hurt and was actually making jokes when Lauren went to get Greg while I got the car.  I was standing right by where it happened and as soon as he grabbed his arm, I knew what happened. I had no idea how tough Matthew was until he re-broke his arm. He didn't cry, he didn't stop the game, he just skated to the bench. He even held his stick in the hand of the arm he was holding. I have to say, he is so much tougher than me. I almost question whether he came out of me. The kid has grit and must be made of barbed wire and nails.

I have to tell you about our team, well, mostly the parents. They have been so good to Matthew, one of the dads has a sports medicine background, he assessed the situation, got Matthew's jersey off without cutting it, his wife got Matthew's skates off using her teeth to undo the laces  Greg kept saying, "Don't inhale! Don't inhale!" to the mom, she said she would only get that close to a skate for one of her kids or Matthew. High praise indeed (Matthew can tie some tight laces). One parent loaned us his cooling machine (well, actually, his wife did), three moms brought their players by to see Matthew when he had surgery. Most have texted or checked in with our team manager. We are truly blessed.

Matthew is sore and recuperating from the surgery and already planning on getting back to playing. I will enjoy the time home because it doesn't look like it will be long before I am back to driving to Nashville.

Watch the game here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rIIwrh4b1hw